Time sort of stopped for me on December 1st. I have been so out of the loop since my father fell and began his downward spiral. He is fortunately stable now and there are very hopeful signs of improvement. For days I came in and out of my house, basically only returning to sleep, shower, and return to the hospital. I almost forgot about the glorious boxes from Cepia LLC , the makers of Zhu Zhu Pets, that were by my front door.
If you have known me for any amount of time, you will know that I love Christmas. Love might not even be a strong enough word. I love colored lights, cookie baking, shopping for and wrapping gifts and most of all celebrating the birth of Jesus. This year I missed a lot of that. I wasn't able to bake cookies with my kids and my husband thankfully did all of the shopping. We didn't have our usual Christmas, but we still had a great one.
One thing that made my Christmas season amazing was being able to participate in Random Acts of Zhu! Zhu Zhu Pets have been incredibly popular since they appeared on the scene in 2009. They are adorable hamster like toys that zip around and squeak just like a real hamster. They saved me from having to buy my daughter a real hamster!!(we have a cat that loves to hunt=bad news for small critters)
I was given the opportunity to give away Zhu Zhu Pets this holiday season through the Random Acts of Zhu program. Cepia chose 100 bloggers to donate 104 Zhu Zhu Pets to the charity of their choice. Because of the amount of time we have been at our local hospital, New Hanover Regional Medical Center, I chose to donate to the Betty Cameron Women's and Children's Hospital that is a part of Hanover Regional. My father is in the Rehabilitation Hospital which is just around the corner from the Children's Hospital. On my many treks to the cafe to get something for my dad, I passed so many family members of children who were hospitalized. My dad and I discussed that while it stinks to be in the hospital at Christmas when you are seventy-three, it would REALLY stink to be in the hospital at Christmas when you're seven.
My husband and children brought the Zhu Zhu Pets up to the hospital and I met them in the lobby. The Children's Hospital is very strict about allowing access to insure the privacy and safety of all of their patients. We had been granted access, but unfortunately(not for us, but for the children involved), when we were supposed to deliver our Zhu Zhu Pets they had two children being admitted who were in critical condition. We quickly dropped off the toys because we knew everyone had important things to do. I have since heard how much the children and families appreciated having special toys at Christmas.
My family with our bags of Zhu Zhu Pets around the tree at the Children's Hospital
For our family, participating in Random Acts of Zhu was a wonderful way to focus on the most important part of the holiday season, GIVING. We always participate in Salvation Army projects and Toys for Tots, but it was particularly rewarding to help a toy company like Cepia with their giving. I am grateful for the opportunity, and grateful to have made Christmas a little bit brighter for children in the hospital!
Sunday, December 12, 2010
Many thanks again to my friend Fadra who is hosting Stream of Consciousness Sundays. The idea is to set a timer for 5 minutes and type. I was able to write much more last time, but I wasn't perched on a hospital bed listening to my Dad's breathing that time. This is a great way to get out anything that you're thinking about, or just jump start your writing(it was both for me this week!)
and the story takes another turn. the week after thanksgiving, after a diagnosis of some Parkinsonisms, my dad fell in the middle of the night. He broke his right femur and his left hip. He had to lay in a hospital bed from Wednesday to Friday with two broken bones. He had two surgeries back to back to fix the right leg and repair replace the left hip. it's terrible. he is so weak and he is getting so confused and now they arent' even sure if he has parkinsons or some other terrible HEREDITARY condition. we are at a rehab hospital facing the possibility of being kicked out because he has developed a urinary tract infection and can't do therapy. hopefully he will tomorrow.
it breaks my heart because he just wants to go home. I leave at night and go home to my family and he has to stay there. its the best place for him, but hes so confused. yesterday morning when he was very sick from the infection he thought i was his mom. that sort of pushed me over the edge. my mom is exhausted, i am exhausted. i am so grateful to my husband for taking care of so much at home so I can be here.
and its Christmas. I love Christmas but the thought of it makes me cry. I haven't done any shopping and I have two children that need me to be able to find my Christmas spirit.
There you have it, 5 unedited gloomy minutes. Moving on.